Let's sit down for a moment. I need you to put down your phone (after reading this, of course) and pay attention. Once again, social media has "discovered" gunpowder. A "revolutionary trick" so that women – poor things, so fragile – can finally do a push-up. My reaction? A yawn so big my virtual jaw almost dislocated. 🤦♀️
The "Discovery" That Will Make Your Trainer Roll Their Eyes
It turns out, according to a Yahoo article that covers it all, a nurse named Courtney Babilya has gone viral. Her great contribution to fitness science? A video where she explains that if women place their hands a little wider than their shoulders and their elbows at a 30 to 45-degree angle, magic happens! The push-up becomes possible.
Forgive me for laughing. Are you telling me that in 2026, we've just discovered that adjusting hand placement according to individual anatomy can change an exercise? Wow, what geniuses. What this woman calls a "trick" for women's "load angle," any decent trainer calls a "wide-grip push-up." It's a variation, not a miracle. But of course, "basic biomechanical variation" doesn't get as many clicks as "life-changing viral trick." Pathetic.
The Numbers Don't Lie, But Excuses Do
The article does drop some interesting data, though. It turns out that 53.8% of Americans can't do more than 10 push-ups, and of that group, 69% are women. This doesn't surprise me. What blows my mind is the mentality that arises around this.
Let's recall the stupid "11 push-up challenge" the article mentions, where everyone rushed to record themselves after Dr. Vonda Wright said women should be able to do them. Some, like Michelle Obama, managed it. Others didn't. And that's when the whining started.
I completely agree with trainer Maddison Rotner, whom they quote saying: "often women are pigeonholed with ideas like, ‘I can’t do a push-up’... and that language ends up being very demotivating." Exactly! Stop saying "I can't." It's bullshit language that turns you into a victim of your own laziness. Do you think Michelle Obama was looking for "tricks" on TikTok? No, damn it. She trained.

